Thursday, October 14, 2010

Women...again

I'd like to start this blog off with a point I touched off with last blog: Women and their over-analyzing. Once again, I apologize in advance if I offend any of you.

Now, I admit that sometimes you women will have good reason to be suspicious of your partners, but sometimes you just need to give them the benefit of the doubt because it isn't anything at all. I've seen women overreact because their partner didn't text back or pick up their call right away. After they hear from their partner, they confront them about cheating on them and whatnot. Most of the time, their partner didn't reply because they were busy with something, got to their phone a little late, or were even just napping. In some cases, the partner is willing to talk it out, but other times this type of behavior is what leads to cheating. I'm sure you women don't like it when your partner's constantly checking in on your or overreacting when you respond like a minute late or something. The same goes for your partner. I've also seen surprises ruined because of women that were way too over-analyzing. Like I said before, sometimes your partner has a good reason for not answering your questions or hiding something. If you've got a surprise ready for a partner, I'm pretty sure you'd be frustrated if they were constantly questioning you what it was or accusing you of things. If he's talking to another girl, it could be a co-worker, classmate, old friend, or, in some cases, a relative. Try not to jump to conclusions too quick...listen to how they act and how they speak to each other. When you're too over-analyzing, it makes you seem paranoid and no one wants a super paranoid partner. If you want a relationship to work, there's gotta be trust and confidence in your partner. Also, you have to be willing to hear your partner out. If you know they're bullshitting or flat out lying, give them a chance to explain themselves and then call them out on it.

Damn...it's getting late >_<. Well, I'm off to study for my midterm. I'll either continue on this or write on a new topic later.

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