Oh geez. Sooooooooooooooooooo many things to say on this topic. Where do I even begin? Well, first off, I would like to apologize in advance if I offend any of the female readers. Oh yeah, this might be pretty damn long, so...just saying.
Growing up, I've learned to respect women because of what I saw and went through with with my mom. Every day she'd pick me up from school and then we'd go off to her work. I'd stay off on the side getting my homework done while my mom worked. I'd spend hours each week with her and saw what she went through. When we'd finally get home, she would start cooking for my brothers and sister without getting a chance to rest. Because of this and everything else I saw my mom go through, I find it hard for me to disrespect women and talk shit to them. Even when I was like 5, this was something that was already instilled in me: Some of my first friends in kindergarten were girls, I never did the whole "girls have cooties" thing, or make fun of them. This is probably why I always get put into the "friend zone", but I'm used to it and don't mind.
I won't lie: Women can be pretty damn complicated, but they can also be pretty simple. Like everyone else around them, women are heavily influenced by what they grow up around. If they grow up in a place where early relationships are the things to do in high school, then of course they're going to be going for those. If they grow up in a place where having sex is the common thing to do, then of course they're gonna think that sex is like nothing. In today's society in America, they've grown up thinking that drama and such is needed for a relationship and whatnot. Now, I'll admit that drama is needed to some extent, but to think that a relationship is based solely on drama is just ridiculous. I mean, all that drama leads to is pain on both sides. Not to mention that drama causes stress and, honestly, do you really want to be stressed out at a young age because of unneeded drama? Boy or girl, I doubt you would really want stress in your life that early on. Some of you might say that the drama shows how much one might care for the other, but if you two truly cared about each other, then you wouldn't have to put each other through these things.
Another thing I don't get is why women find it so hard to believe when a guy tells her that she looks fine. I mean yeah, I can understand when you take the time to get ready for a date and everything only for the guy to not give you a single compliment, but when you're not feeling that great and a guy says you look fine, you usually do. Trust me, a guy will usually tell you when you aren't looking your best. Because of the media and society, women feel like they need to look a certain way, so they all put themselves through these tough and unhealthy diets and other things. I mean, I don't mind when a woman goes to workout now and then, but to take it to the extremes to the point that you look like a fucking stick? No thanks. If a guy cares so much about how you look to the point that he wants you starving yourself and whatnot, then he probably isn't the one for you. While I'm on the subject, ladies, don't get mad when you ask your boyfriend or someone if you look like you gained weight and they say yes. Depending on how you are, you're either gonna get mad and start snacking out of anger, or you won't believe us when we say you don't. You not believing us leads to you calling us a liar which in turn leads to a pointless argument. When you ask us this question, be prepared for the answer and think about it yourself afterwards...try not to let your emotions get the best of you.
Another thing that doesn't help relationships: Your obsessions with people. Now, I'm not just talking about your typical Bieber, Edward, Jacob, or other typical celebrity crush thing. I mean yeah, those do get annoying as well if you're a fan girl, but I'm talking about more along the lines of the obsession with your crush or partner. Either way, if you're heavily obsessed with one, it might just scare them off. If it's a crush, you're probably gonna scare the crap out of him, or her if you swing that way, and ruin your chances right then and there. With your partner, if you're so obsessed with them that you don't give them their space, you're just going to scare them off. Not only that, but you make yourself seem soooooo clingy and weird. Chances are, you don't like it when your partner's constantly keeping a tab on you, so it only makes sense that your partner doesn't want you constantly keeping an eye on them 24/7. Trust in your partner unless you have a really, really good reason not to with evidence to support your reasoning. Try to talk things out. If your partner acts suspicious or keeps on dodging questions, try to consider a few things: maybe they had a rough day and just want to relax, maybe they have a surprise or something planned, and hell, it might even just be something really personal that they'll talk to you about in due time.
Hmmm. I think that's enough for now. I'll continue you more tomorrow.
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